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One of the most frequently asked questions is
this:
"My story is this (this is where there are all the
sordid and painful details). Do I still have a chance or is it hopeless to get my ex boyfriend back or get my ex
girlfriend back?"
Have you ever
wondered this? It's also known that this goes beyond
just the situation with your ex. It applies to every part of our lives, doesn't it? When things go awry (and
how often does that happen:), what do we do?
As people we have an ingrained psychological NEED to feel and exercise our personal
power.
This doesn't mean anything weird like being more powerful than others, or bullying
people. What it means is that we need to feel like we have some control over our own
lives and discover that making
up made easy can really be true.
One of the most devastating things about a breakup is the loss of this feeling of
power. The choice of our happiness feels like it has been taken from us. That is devastating to our state of well
being.
Does this make sense?
Have you ever felt this
way?
If so, there is some good news. You can change this feeling by changing the way you
look at the situation. Or, to put it another way, by changing the way you interpret it. What this will do for you
is allow you feel better and be stronger, more confident and happier than you would have been otherwise.
Here's the first step: the way you interpret a situation has everything to do with
how you feel about it.
STEP ONE: Often after a breakup, we think our ex boyfriend or
ex girlfriend isn't thinking about us at all, that they are moving on, and happy with life without us. This is
devastating to our well being.
Well, who says they are moving on and happy with life? You do. You are the one who is
saying that. You are telling it to yourself. Is it possible you could tell yourself something different? If you are
telling yourself one thing that makes you feel like crap, would you be willing to tell yourself something different
that would make you feel better?
If you're not willing to try it, then you are obviously devoted to being miserable.
If you aren't willing to TRY something that can make you feel better, than you are choosing (for whatever reason)
to be sad. And being sad isn't as fun as being happy. It's easier, but not as much fun.
Okay, so what can you think instead? Think this: "My ex is sad and missing
me because we had some great times and
shared some deep emotion. They may appear to be doing better, but it's just an act. They are a better actor than I
am, but in no less pain."
What this does for you is profound. It allows you to feel
wanted. To feel a sense of power again. Imagine if you were to believe the statement above were true. Wouldn't you
feel stronger, more confident and more sure of how to move forward? Wouldn't you feel like you had more options
than just waiting for them to call you, text you or ask you out? Wouldn't it feel like the deepest needs we have
(to feel wanted, to have some sense of control over our own lives) would be more satisfied?
Yes of course it would.
Now listen, if you're still reading this, it's obvious
that you are a person that takes action to create your happiness. Here's what to do
next:
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Confidence is contagious, isn't it? You've been around people who are confident,
right? Not cocky, but confident. Confident in you and your strengths. How does that make you
feel?
Confident.
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